Fear Of Missing Out: The Ultimate Social Media Trap
Video Transcript
Ray Hrdlicka – Host – Attorneys.Media
Is FOMO, “fear of missing out,” really a driver to the addiction?
Steven Gacovino – Personal Injury Attorney – Suffolk County (Long Island), NY
There’s no doubt. There’s no doubt that this is, look, you know, everybody sort of moves in a herd. And if you’re the only one that’s maybe not on social media or you don’t know what’s going on, you’re really on the outside looking in.
And while that might be easier for some of us as fully blown adults, it’s not so easy for an 11, a 12, 13, 14, 15 year old individual to take themselves away from that world because that’s where the world exists for them.
So, I hear what you’re saying, but yes, fear of missing out is a huge element to the damage that we’re seeing here.
Look, again, I don’t think that it’s that they love being there. It’s just that’s where everybody else is.
So, this is the importance of the New York law. And I believe a lot of states now are adopting the same rules, at least take it away from them during their school hours.
It’s going to give children a chance to really make friends. It’s going to give them a chance to interact differently, to talk about things that are interesting or productive, to look people in the eye and form sentences to people, and learn how to have a human connection.
We’re losing that. And I think that we’ve lost a generation of people to it, and I hope that they can recover from it.
But this creation of individual realities, this creation that everybody has their own separate world, their own separate point of view, their own separate stuff that they’re looking at, I think leads to a breakdown in one of the most important aspects of humanity, which is learning how to interact and work with people and talk to people, make friends with people, laugh with people, cry with people, connecting with family.
It’s a big deal.
